November 6th, 2025, Issue # 100
One Week,
One Project,
One Path to a
Stress-Free Holiday Season.
The Pecan Detour
This is your invitation to reject holiday overwhelm by creating meaningful, handmade gifts that will transform the season from rushed to remarkable.
This Week's Project: The Pecan Detour
- The Process: We harvest pecans from our massive Wichita pecan tree, waiting for nature's signal (when green husks split open) to pick at just the right time
- The Ritual: Dan collects ripe pecans each morning while the Nora prepares recipes with last year's harvest (spiced and flavored pecans, pecan turtles)
- The Work: Together they peel the husks off the pecans (wearing surgical gloves to avoid indelible brown staining), cure the pecans for three weeks in a cool spot, then crack shells during evening happy hours
- The Reality: One hour of two people spent cracking yields just one pound of pecan halves
The Philosophy: Homegrown pecans aren't cheaper—they're priceless. One can adopt this tradition or simply buy quality pecans from Costco and make the recipes, emphasizing that what matters isn't perfection but intention.
The real gift isn't the item itself—it's the time, thought, and care that went into creating it, showing someone "you're worthy of my time and love."


